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Homeland resident Anna Guidara: A life built around faith – and cookies

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Since coming to Homeland two years ago, Anna Guidara has made many friends and has earned a reputation as Homeland’s “prayer chain queen.”

When people need a prayer for their health, they stop by Anna’s room, and their requests go into Anna’s prayers.

“When I retired, I had more time, so I went to church every morning, and I started praying and praying and praying, so I keep praying,” she says. “I pray every day for somebody.”

Anna’s steadfast faith has been a comfort through a life of tragedy, resilience, and family. That tight-knit family includes a granddaughter and great-grandson who work at Homeland, keeping them close every day.

Anna grew up in Steelton, the youngest of seven children. Her parents married in their native Italy, and the old country traditions remain central to her family. Her granddaughter, Homeland Clinical Manager Kelly Weldon, recalls, “We had spaghetti dinners every Sunday.”

“And meatballs,” Anna adds. “And homemade wine. They made their own wine.”

Anna’s father worked for the railroad but times were tough, and Anna left school at 16 to take a job in the packing room of ice cream maker Hershey Creamery, where two of her brothers were supervisors.

Two years later, in 1946, Anna got married. Not long after their 20th anniversary, her husband, Bill, went to work and was electrocuted on the job. He was 37 years old, and Anna was a young, widowed mother.

“My daughter was 12 years old, and I raised her,” Anna says now. “I put her through school, and she was a nurse for 40 years. I’m proud of her. I’m proud of all my family. God’s been with us all the time.”

Anna supervised the deli counter at Karns Food Store for about 25 years, and though she was busy with work and family, she still made the time to help the nuns at her church serve meals to students.

“I used to make around 500 subs a day for fundraisers,” she says. “Karns gave them the lettuce and the tomatoes. They gave them the ham. They sold them for a dollar. You can’t do that now.”

After she retired, Anna moved across the Susquehanna River to Marysville to be closer to her daughter and help watch her granddaughters.

“She liked to shop,” says Kelly of those years. “She always took my sister and me shopping for school clothes. It was a tradition.”

Another Italian tradition that Kelly enjoyed with her “Nanny” was holiday baking.

“We always baked a ton of cookies at Christmastime,” says Kelly. “We would give them out. We had a routine. We would pick up nut rolls the week before Christmas and hand them out. We would give out the cans of cookies, too. Now, my mom and I do it.”

When Anna could no longer live independently, Homeland was the logical choice because Kelly was working here, as is Kelly’s son, Drew, in dietary. Since moving to Homeland two years ago, Anna has enjoyed morning worship, exercise classes, walking, and her longtime passion – playing bingo.

“I know everybody here,” she says. “I talk to everybody.”

Faith remains an integral part of Anna’s life.

“I pray for my health and that everybody up here is well,” she says. “I pray for everybody who’s sick and everybody who’s in the hospital. Every time I talk to somebody, I’m praying for them.”

Kelly admits that she can’t cook as well as her grandmother, but she learned more essential lessons from Anna.

“Faith, number one,” Kelly says. “And I learned to be strong. Nanny was a widow at a very young age. She raised my mom by herself. She did remarry, but her second husband was very sick, and he died when I was young. I’ve learned from her what it’s like to be a strong, independent, do-everything-on-your-own person.”

Anna hopes that she has been an inspiration.

“My one friend said that God has me here for a reason,” she says. “She said, ‘He’s not done with you.’ I’m 93 years old. When He’s done with me, He’ll take me. Everybody says I don’t look 93. They say I look 75. I say, ‘Get out of here.’”

Homeland resident Sadie Hawkins: 106 and going strong

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Sadie Hawkins was commuting between home and work when her doctor issued a warning. If she kept riding the train back and forth every day, she wouldn’t last long, he said.

In October, Sadie turned 106 years old.

“He died, and I’m still here,” she says.

The day after her 106th birthday, Homeland Center arranged a Zoom call with her family. They talked about her life steeped in faith. During the call, Sadie showed her spot-on sense of humor while sharing her thoughts on the excellent care she’s getting at Homeland – especially the enjoyable meals.

“They give you enough to eat,” she says. “Oh, my goodness, yes.”

Sadie has seen the world, but her heart belongs to her native Pennsylvania, where she has lived most of her life. For a time, her father was a coal miner. With five children, things weren’t always easy, but the family managed. When the Great Depression arrived, they got by.

“I remember people were hungry, but I wasn’t,” she says.

World War II interrupted young adulthood. Sadie’s two brothers went to war. One died in a naval battle, and the other endured captivity as a Japanese POW. Sadie became a clerk for the U.S. government to do her part.

“I never graduated from high school, but I went to a business school for 10 months to get my education,” she says. “That got me into the business. Otherwise, I’d have been out of luck. I didn’t have a college education, but I could add and subtract.”

She loved her work and enjoyed a long career in government. Over her long life, Sadie has seen society change completely. She’s no fan of technology, especially the cellphones and screens that dominate today’s world.

Asked if life is better with or without technology, she has a ready answer.

“Without, because people don’t appreciate the little things in life.” Sadie once told her nurses that she walked 100 steps a day, and when they asked if she got the number from a Fitbit, she said, ‘No, I just counted my steps!’”

Life took a new turn days after her 90th birthday when Sadie married her longtime companion, Orville Hawkins. He died only one year later, but they enjoyed excursions and family visits in their travel trailer in their time together.

Homeland has been very lovely, Sadie says.

“Everyone is really great,’’ she says of the staff. “They take care of you. Anything you want done; they’ll do. They’re a great bunch of people. They work hard.”

Sadie’s birthdays are always a cause for celebration. Because of COVID restrictions, last year, friends and family held a drive-by party. This year, the party moved to Homeland’s porch.

As for all that good Homeland food, she recalls one particular meal.

“It was filled with macaroni and cheese, ice cream and cherry pie,” she says. “It was good, but I couldn’t eat all of it.”

Then again, she admits: “later on, I got some more ice cream.”

She spends her days reading, especially the Bible.

“I’m a Catholic, but I go to any church that is near,” she says. “I’m sure the good Lord is not going to ask, ‘Are you a Catholic, or are you a Protestant?’”

Friends and family call and send presents. A niece recently set a bottle of her favorite perfume – the classic Estee Lauder Beautiful.

“It really smells nice,” she says. “I’ve used that scent for years. Some men have stopped me and asked me what I’m wearing. Sometimes, people don’t tell you what they’re wearing, but I like it, and so I’ll let anybody know who asks.”

As for the secret of living to 106, “the good Lord figures out everything,” she says

“It’s Him or nobody. I don’t know who else could do the things that He does for people. When I broke my hip, and they said I wasn’t going to make it, I thought to myself, ‘Well, we’ll just let it fall on Him and do what He has to do.’ And here I am.”

Homeland resident Hannah Sprow: Remembering special summers

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Hannah Sprow is Steelton born and bred, but her heart belongs to a cabin in the woods.

From childhood, Hannah and her family would spend summers amid the forests of Pine Grove Furnace.

“I loved that place,” she says. “It was more like a home to me than my own home.”

Today, Hannah is a resident of Homeland Center skilled care, enjoying the company of attentive staff and offering her family peace of mind from knowing that she is well-cared-for.

Hannah’s father was a tax collector and sheriff, working in the Steelton Borough office. Her mother cared for Hannah and her siblings.

One day, while walking to high school, a friend pulled up and said that his friend, Bob Sprow, would like to take Hannah out on a date. Bob had already graduated from high school, but they started going steady.

“That’s where it started,” Hannah says. After she graduated from high school, they got married – but with a twist.

“We were married six months before anybody knew it,” she says. “Marrying him was the best thing I ever did.”

They kept their marriage a secret because Hannah was still young, but when the family learned the news, “they didn’t have much to say about it,” she says.

“My father helped me. My mother helped me,’’ Hannah recalled with a smile. “Every time I wanted to cook something for dinner, I’d call her on the phone, and she’d tell me what to do.’’

The young couple got an apartment with a view up and down Steelton’s main street. Their three children, two boys and a girl were born while they lived there.

Soon after the birth of their youngest daughter, Luanne, the family moved to Steelton’s East End, where they enjoyed being part of the tight-knit community. Across the street, her friend Lucille fixed up her basement, and the women would get together for exercise while the kids were at school.

The Sprow boys were athletes at Steelton-Highspire High School. Luanne was a cheerleader. Every Sunday, the family stepped out the back door of their home and walked a few steps straight to the side door of their church, Mt. Zion Methodist.

“I never got bored,” says Hannah. “I always had something to do.”

Luanne agrees that those were eventful years.

“It was great,” says Luanne, who still lives in Steelton and remains a proud Steel-High Roller. “We had a lot of fun. I was a lot younger and the only girl. We enjoyed being together.”

Those summers in Pine Grove Furnace are etched in Hannah’s mind. When she was a child, the family would stay in the historic ironmaster’s mansion, now a hostel and event venue. In 1944, they built a cabin on their land – Hannah’s dad completing the shell and her husband fitting out the interior.

“It was beautiful,” Hannah recalls. “Our porch was so big that when it was hot, the kids would sleep on the porch.”

For years, the cabin was the Sprow family getaway, and it remains in the family.

“As soon as school was out, our bags were packed,” Luanne says. “We stayed all summer long.”

After Bob retired, the couple continued spending summers in Pine Grove. They also traveled to Myrtle Beach in the winter – although they were usually ready to come home before their three months were up.

Bob died in 2011, after 70 years of marriage. Hannah, who has six grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren, came to Homeland in 2018.
“I meet a lot of nice people,” she says of Homeland.

“It’s wonderful,” Luanne agrees. “They’ve been very good to my mom. They’re taking very good care of her. We’re very happy with Homeland.”

Centenarian Minerva Ward enjoys Homeland after a life of hard work and service

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From an early age, Minerva Ward was independent. She taught her children a world of values.

“Hard work,” said her daughter, Charlene Saunders. “Ethics. Compassion.”

“We do a lot of complaining these days,” said her son, Ty Ward. “She never complained about a lot of stuff. She just went ahead and did it.”

Today, Minerva Ward belongs to an exclusive club – Homeland Center’s centenarians. Born in 1921, she celebrated her 100th birthday this Summer with an outdoor party in Homeland’s beautiful Chet Henry Memorial Pavilion.

Minerva, the oldest of six children, was born in Front Royal, VA. There weren’t many local opportunities, so her father enlisted in the Army. Minerva had her first taste of central Pennsylvania when her father was stationed at the New Cumberland Army Depot, and the family relocated.

At 14, Minerva struck out on her own, moving to Harrisburg to work in a laundromat and do domestic jobs.

“Back in the day, when you were Black, you only went to school to a certain age,” said Ty. “She had to help the family out.”

Minerva found a circle of friends through the Steelton Elks and its marching club. The group held monthly dinners, with Minerva cooking, to raise funds for annual trips to theme parks and vacation spots. There, the group would don their crisp white uniforms and march in local parades.

On her travels, Minerva met her husband, Charles Ward, through friends in Los Angeles. She was in her 40s, but she started a family. Charlene was born in Los Angeles. Ty and their brother Morris were born back east, where Minerva moved to be with family and friends. The family lived for about 10 years in Newark, NJ, before moving back to Harrisburg in 1970.

For many years, Minerva babysat for neighborhood families and ran daycare centers in her home.

“She raised a lot of children,” Charlene says. “Some of them still stay in touch with her. She always had a love for helping other people and watching children.”

Minerva also was active in Harrisburg’s Harris AME Zion Church, serving as an usher and advisory board member, and earning the honored title of “Mother.” Whether it was newspapers or tabloid magazines, she was always reading to keep up with the latest news from her beloved soap operas.

“She’s still watching ‘General Hospital,’” says Charlene.

Minerva instilled a respect for learning in her kids.

“She made sure we stayed in school and studied,” Charlene says. “She exerted the right amount of discipline and control to keep us out of trouble. None of us had any problems with school because we knew mom didn’t tolerate that.”

All three kids finished high school. Ty and Charlene graduated from college, while Morris entered the military.

After a lifetime of hard work, Minerva retired around 1990. She closed out her career in housekeeping with a Harrisburg-area nursing home.

“She did whatever she had to do to take care of us,” Ty recalled.

In retirement, Minerva helped take care of her grandchildren – six total, and now five great-grandchildren. She also had more time to indulge her love of cooking and made dinner for friends and family. Her gumbo was a favorite dish.

“It’s a lot of work, but I do like to make the gumbo,” says Charlene. “I play around with her recipe and Emeril Lagasse’s recipe.”

Minerva came to Homeland Center in early 2021. Ty talked to others and researched the choices in continuing care retirement communities around Harrisburg. Homeland Center emerged as the best place he could find, with its reputation for excellence and personalized care.

Minerva still has a healthy appetite, and she loves Homeland’s food. She and her roommate, who is nearly her age, chat happily. She attends worship services and has bonded with the staff.

“They’ll wash her hair and braid it and put it in a little style,” says Charlene. “She just primps at that point because she loves when they do her hair.”

Minerva’s 100th birthday fell during COVID-19 restrictions and Homeland made sure there was a safe celebration. Ten family and friends attended the outdoor festival, bedecking her in a tiara and sash declaring, “100 & Fabulous.” A proclamation from state Sen. Christopher Gebhard extended congratulations from the Senate of Pennsylvania. Homeland employees sang “Happy Birthday” and presented her with an outsized birthday card. In her room, she was hardly visible behind the flowers sent by well-wishers.

The family is pleased that they found Homeland for their mother.

“They have a good group of volunteers and staff there,” says Charlene. “They take pride in their work.”

Homeland resident Judy Hess: Adventures in nursing

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Judy Hess has lovely memories of childhood in Hershey, named for the famous chocolate company where her father worked in the Hershey Foods power plant. She would see the renowned founder — Milton Hershey — driving around town.

“Mr. Hershey believed that everything he did was for his workers,” she says. “He was a very forward-looking man, a very bright man. Hershey was a wonderful place to grow up. I think we were really very spoiled.”

Today, Judy is a resident of Homeland Center, where she marvels at the professionalism of the staff and the meticulous upkeep of the building. She should know because she spent a career in nursing, trying new experiences whenever she had the chance.

Looking back on her youth, Judy remembers Mr. Hershey’s majestic movie palace, the Hershey Theatre, with its famous ceiling.

“When you sat down and watched movies, you could look up and see clouds and stars overhead,” Judy says. Then as now, Broadway touring companies would come through, and Judy saw all the shows, including the Rodgers & Hammerstein blockbuster, “South Pacific.”

In Hershey, she met her future husband – Paul Hess – who was her classmate from Kindergarten through 12th grade.

“We never dated at all in high school,” she says. “Never once. But we did walk down the aisle together at graduation.”

They walked down the aisle together as husband and wife after he came home on leave from the Navy at the end of World War II. Judy was in town as well, on vacation from nursing school.

“We had one date, and he asked me to marry him, and I said yes,” she says of the answer that launched their 61-year marriage as a shell-shocked world sighed in relief that the fighting had ended. “We both decided that we were war-weary. It lasted a long time.”

Judy’s contribution to World War II made a lasting impression on her life. She had dreamed of becoming a teacher, but she joined the United States Cadet Nurse Corps when the war started.

The Nurse Corps was founded in 1943 to provide free nursing education for civilian nurses to fill the home-front posts as experienced nurses joined the military.

“I still tell people I’m tired from those three years,” jokes Judy. “I never worked so hard in my entire life.”

Judy served at Thomas Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia, where she and her fellow student nurses cared for patients and attended classes without fail – even after working 12-hour night shifts.

“It was a tough life – but worth it,” Judy says.

The young nursing students shared a house where they had a 10 p.m. curfew. With the intensity of the experience, the group stayed in touch for the rest of their lives.

“When we had reunions, we would always say the same thing,” she says. “It was hard, but we would not have wanted to have missed it.”

That experience launched a fulfilling career in nursing. For many years, her nursing jobs “moved with me” as she and Paul traveled for his Navy career, from which he retired as a captain. While Paul was working on his doctorate at the University of Delaware, Judy served as head nurse for the university’s Student Health Center.

Following the Navy, Paul became a respected environmental scientist and retired as the Hershey Foods Corporation environmental affairs department director.

Judy’s career also came full circle when the Hess family returned to Hershey, and she enjoyed 15 years as a school nurse for the nearby Annville-Cleona School District. One summer, she also worked in the psychiatric ward of the Milton S. Hershey Medical Center (now Penn State Health Milton S. Hershey Medical Center).

Judy and Paul had a daughter, Paula. While Paul conducted research at the University of Delaware Marine Science Center in Lewes, the family spent many summers in that quiet seashore town, watching boats come and go on the Intercoastal Waterway. Sometimes, Paul would say, “I’m going to take Judy on a cruise.”

“And we would take the ferry over to New Jersey,” she says, laughing.

Judy arrived in Homeland Center’s skilled care unit in spring 2021. She has visited many nursing homes in her life, “and this is by far the nicest one I have ever been in. I don’t think there are very many that could compare to this.”

“It’s a wonderful place,” she says. “It’s bright, and it’s cheery, and they keep everything in such good repair. I am amazed at how well appointed it is. Everything is just as you would want it to be.”

Homeland resident Caroline Witmer: Soaring into the air, skiing down mountains

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Caroline Witmer brings a wealth of memories to Homeland, with stories from years of adventure, service to the country, and family connections to Milton Hershey and Dwight Eisenhower. The skilled care resident enjoys life at Homeland, where she loves the food and the elegance of the facility.

Born and raised in Harrisburg, Caroline remains proud of the family business, the prominent Manbeck Bakery in Lemoyne, bought by her grandfather in 1915 and continued by her father and brother through the late 1970s.

“They had quite an operation,” she says of the brick structure that today is the Antique Marketplace of Lemoyne. “There’s a picture of me promoting a new type of loaf, holding the bread in a baby carriage. My grandparents and father, and brother put the best in the bread and everything else they made. It was top of the line.”

Caroline recalls when a friend of her father’s called in 1953 to say that he was organizing a birthday party for President Dwight D. Eisenhower. This was no ordinary birthday party. It was Ike’s first birthday as president, and the GOP staged a massive fundraiser. They chose the Hershey Stadium and hosted 6,000 attendees, who ate box lunches under a Ringling Brothers & Barnum and Bailey Circus tent.

The organizer called Caroline’s father and asked for the use of the Manbeck Bakery plant, which roasted the chicken in the bread ovens and then transported the lunches in the bakery’s trucks.

Newsreel footage shows Eisenhower enjoying the party, though Caroline recalls her father being a bit less pleased with the cleanup involved.

“The ovens were kept very clean for bread baking, and my father said, ‘Never again, no matter the friendship, will I ever do that,’” Caroline says with a laugh. “But everyone commented that the chicken was very good.”

Caroline attended a junior college in Missouri and then returned to Pennsylvania to study history at Penn State University. At a wedding, she met David P. Witmer, Jr, and they married in the late 1950s.

Her new father-in-law was D. Paul Witmer, the talented, largely self-taught engineer and draftsman. He oversaw the construction of many Hershey landmarks, including Hershey Stadium, Hotel Hershey, and the Milton Hershey School.

The chocolate magnate lived across the street and often called David’s home to ask if Paul could try a new concoction. Hershey was always experimenting, and Witmer, Sr., never shied from sharing his honest opinions.

“My father-in-law would say, ‘Mr. Hershey, I’m sorry, but I don’t think that would sell,’” Caroline says. “You could disagree with Mr. Hershey, but don’t lie to him. He was very down to earth.”

Caroline’s husband grew up flying his father’s plane. In 1955, he began a 35-year career as an officer with the U.S. Air Force and 193rd Special Operations Wing of the Pennsylvania Air National Guard. He flew combat and special missions in hot spots worldwide, including Saudi Arabia, Iran, Iraq, Libya, and the Belgian Congo. He served three tours in Vietnam, and he worked with the Korean Air Force.

While he did not talk much about his missions, Caroline recalls some stories about close calls and tricky landings. One time, she says, her husband grabbed the plane’s controls before it crashed into a mountain range that the navigator only identified as “black spots.’’

“He grabbed the controls and turned,” Caroline says. “My husband was extremely calm. You could have five volcanoes going off, and he would say, ‘Here’s what we’re going to do.’”

David had his own plane, and Caroline loved flying with him. Sometimes, she would take the controls.

Caroline, David, and their two sons lived in Camp Hill, where Caroline volunteered with the Junior League and worked for AAA and Allegheny Airlines as a receptionist. They took full advantage of David’s 33 days of vacation every year and took up downhill skiing when they were 31, visiting slopes across the globe for the next 54 years.

“At age 55, I skied the Matterhorn,” she says. “It took four hours. You skied in sections because it’s so long.”

Caroline and David were married for 62 years, until his death in May 2020. She came to Homeland around that time and says she enjoys playing bingo, attending Pastor Dann Caldwell’s Sunday ecumenical services, and joining functions such as Homeland’s ice cream socials.

“It’s very nice here,” she says. “The facility is wonderful, and everything is kept very clean. The dining room is lovely, and the food is delicious.’’