Homeland Resident Nancy VanKirk: Volunteering and Encouraging Others

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In the early 2000s, Nancy VanKirk’s mother and stepfather lived at Homeland Center. From the attentive care they received, VanKirk knew that Homeland would be her home when the time came that she would need care.

“It’s a very friendly, homey atmosphere,” she said. “There’s no place quite like it.”

The time came in early 2022 when Nancy moved into a personal care suite. Since then, she has become a fixture in Homeland’s gift shop, devoting her Friday mornings to tending to the residents and visitors who need a snack, a gift, or a toiletry item.

Nancy grew up in Harrisburg’s North Allison Hill, the daughter of a salesman and a homemaker. At age 16, Nancy was sitting around a campfire while attending church camp when she suddenly felt a calling to serve in a Christian capacity. She wasn’t sure what that could be, but she thought being a minister’s wife would be marvelous.

The pastor’s wife of her church didn’t try to dissuade her but said, “Nancy, it’s no bed of roses.”

Nancy had already met Don VanKirk as a teenager in the same neighborhood. They were in and out of each other’s lives for seven years, until one day, the phone rang, “and there was Don VanKirk.”

They married in 1954. Back then, he was a printer’s apprentice. About a year into the marriage, they attended a camp meeting at Mt. Gretna when he felt the calling into the ministry.

“I was elated,” Nancy said. Don VanKirk graduated from United Theological Seminary in western Ohio, and for the next 40 years, the VanKirks and their son and daughter lived in 10 different places, mostly in central Pennsylvania. They went where the United Methodist Church assigned them.

“I always was very much involved in whatever needed to be done,” she said. “I was there to do it.”

Don VanKirk died in 2006, and Nancy moved into a retirement home. She kept busy volunteering, including 20 years on the board of the Neighborhood Center of the United Methodist Church, which provides community services in Harrisburg.

When health challenges complicated her ability to stand, Nancy knew it was time to come to Homeland. She appreciated the stability in staffing and the leadership that ensured quality care.

Before long, Nancy noticed no one was operating the Homeland gift shop on Fridays. Ever ready to pitch in, she offered to volunteer. She picked up quickly on the routine and applied her 10 years of experience as an independent contractor displaying home interiors and gifts for home shows.

“I’m a people person,” she said. “Plus, it was easy for me to keep stock in place and to realize that whatever we had for sale needed to be on the shelves where people could see it and buy it.”

The Homeland gift shop offers practical items and little delights. Tastykakes and snacks are sold at bargain prices. Residents can find the toiletries they need. Visiting families can pick up coloring books and puzzles to occupy the children. Anyone looking for a gift can find scarves, hand-crocheted throws, jewelry, and cards.

In the gift shop, connected to the Homeland Diner, Nancy deftly manages an array of tasks — stocking the ice cream freezer, breaking down small boxes, making sales, and tracking residents’ accounts.

“I enjoy it,” she said, adding that she likes being helpful. “I’m an encourager at heart. That’s sort of my goal in life.”

Homeland, she adds, “is a very good place to live. I expect to live the rest of my life where I am.”

 

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland’s outreach program, Homeland at Home provides hospice, palliative care, home care, and home health to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.

Homeland 5K and Memory Walk: A Time to Remember and Honor Loved Ones

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Anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one knows the journey through grief doesn’t have a timeline. Memories can flood our minds at inopportune moments at the grocery store or at milestone events when there is an empty seat at the table where our loved one used to sit. Homeland Hospice held its 10th Annual 5K and Memory Walk on September 14 to provide a safe and supportive space for families to honor a lost loved one.

More than 300 runners, walkers, staff members and volunteers gathered for this special Homeland tradition. Runners and walkers wore purple event t-shirts with the names of loved ones remembered. Many participants walked in groups with their furry family members in tow wearing colorful bandanas provided by Homeland. Among the purple sea of participants was Kathy Page and her friend Kim Sowers. This was Kathy’s sixth year walking in honor of her husband Charlie who received hospice services before his death in 2019.

“I support the event every year,” Cathy says. “I am proud to see Charlie’s name on the t-shirt.”

When Kim’s mother, Gail, needed support services, Cathy recommended Homeland based on the compassionate care Charlie received. Kim’s mother has passed away, making this Kim’s first walk.

For others, the event was about supporting Homeland’s mission and connecting with friends and colleagues. Hannah Dudginski of Enola works for Homeland but rarely gets to connect with her coworkers. She brought along her sisters Madeline and Sarah.

“It is great to see everyone,” Hannah says. “We love supporting this event.”

A unique aspect of the event includes interactive stations to help families process their grief. Alexis Conkle, MSW, a Homeland Bereavement Counselor, helped create the activities at each station. The first station focused on gratitude and release. Participants could write personal messages to their loved ones on a special piece of paper which dissolved when placed in water.

“This station is emotional and personal for families,” Alexis says. “At the same time, it can provide relief for many people whose hearts are heavy because they have something to say to their loved one.”

At the second station, runners and walkers received small candles with an uplifting quote about the power of light during dark times of our lives.

Homeland’s beloved teddy bear, named Rosemary, also made a special appearance at the third station. Rosemary is a perennial herb that symbolizes love and remembrance and is often incorporated into special Homeland events.

Runners and walkers could have their photos taken with Rosemary who was in the driver’s seat of a car. Racers could also write the name of their loved one on a magnet and place it on the car.

Homeland Hospice provided a new station this year in honor of its 15th Anniversary, which will be celebrated with a special event on Saturday, November 23, 2024. “History, Heart & Honor” will include a display of handmade works of art in the shape of a heart. Participants at the race were encouraged to decorate a heart with adjectives about their loved one for the upcoming event.

As the walkers and racers completed the course, they enjoyed apples, bananas, granola bars and burritos over conversation and relaxation.

Funds raised benefit Homeland Hospice supportive services like massage, music therapy and additional in-home relief hours as well as residents of Homeland Center whose financial resources have been exhausted. Homeland Hospice is a nonprofit hospice program that serves communities throughout Central Pennsylvania.

For more information about Homeland Hospice, call (717) 221-7890.