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Homeland Residents Sue and Steve Valoczki: A Life of Adventure

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Sue and Steve ValoczkiSue and Steve Valoczki spend a lot of time joshing around with Homeland staff. 

“The staff is very nice,” said Steve. “They’re interactive and make sure you’re comfortable. They have a good sense of humor. I have to be on my toes for them.” 

“They tease us a lot,” added Sue.  

Since coming to Homeland in February 2024, the Valoczkis have settled into spacious adjoining rooms in personal care. The stylish décor in Steve’s room includes ceramics collected over the years and an antique trunk converted to a coffee table. 

Steve immigrated to the United States from Germany when he was five years old. When Steve arrived in Detroit, Steve’s father worked in a steel mill and his mother worked in food service.  

Steve’s Hungarian father and his German mother met in a displaced persons camp after World War II. His father, a proud Hungarian who hated the Nazis and the Communists, was conscripted to command tanks for the German Army. After leading in 44 tanks in Stalingrad, he was told to stay there waiting for supplies.  

Instead “he got up one day, got all his guys together, and said, ‘Menjünk haza,’ which is Hungarian for, ‘Let’s go home,’” said Steve. “He turned those tanks around and went back to Hungary. He gave himself up to the English and sat in that camp until the war ended.” 

From his father, Steve learned never to give up. 

“My father lost his leg in an industrial accident,” he said. “He healed and went right back to work.” 

Sue grew up in Grosse Pointe, Michigan, with three sisters, including a twin. Her father, who was in advertising, created a famous Chevy commercial showing a car floating down a raft in the Grand Canyon. She was a high school athlete, competing in “all the sports – tennis, basketball, lacrosse, swimming.” At 17, she and her twin took up competitive sailing.  

“Then we’d go to the regattas at night and have a fun party,” she said.  

Sue and Steve met at Ferris State University in Michigan. 

“He was a lot of fun, and we were pretty much a hot couple on campus,” Sue said. “We had a good time together.” 

They got married in 1971. Jobs were tight. Steve graduated in 1970, but through a fraternity brother, he got a job with a distributor of Gallo wines just when Gallo was amping up its marketing efforts 

Steve embraced the work and stayed in wine and spirits sales for his career. The couple lived in Detroit, Wisconsin, Miami Beach, Chicago, and West Chester, PA. In Miami, Steve acquired accounts that even the top executives couldn’t crack “just by service and showing up.”  

The jobs took the couple all over the world. Throughout Europe, they were treated royally, with five-course meals and behind-the-scenes tours of wineries. In a wine cellar in Spain, Steve lightly touched a bottle high up, and suddenly, they started rattling.  

“My heart stood still,” Steve says now. Luckily, the bottles stayed in place.  

Sue had a successful career in banking. Aside from the “exciting times” — her term for the two robberies she experienced — she was responsible for growing the business and connecting with various people. 

While living in West Chester, the couple raised their children: a daughter who is now a cardiac intensive care unit nurse and a son who played football at Penn State and today sells medical devices. Their five grandchildren inherited their grandmother’s athleticism, playing softball, field hockey, and football. 

At Homeland, the Valoczkis’ constant companion is Rue, their personable, seven-year-old rescue Jack Russel terrier. The first time they met her, she hopped onto the picnic table where the Valoczkis were sitting and kissed Steve on the nose. 

Sue keeps dog treats handy for staff to give Rue.  

“We should get some sort of compensation because the people here love her,” she joked. “She’s like a therapy dog. She really does bring a lot of comfort to people.” 

Homeland Resident Nancy VanKirk: Volunteering and Encouraging Others

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Resident Nancy VanKirk smiling in front of shelvesIn the early 2000s, Nancy VanKirk’s mother and stepfather lived at Homeland Center. From the attentive care they received, VanKirk knew that Homeland would be her home when the time came that she would need care.

“It’s a very friendly, homey atmosphere,” she said. “There’s no place quite like it.”

The time came in early 2022 when Nancy moved into a personal care suite. Since then, she has become a fixture in Homeland’s gift shop, devoting her Friday mornings to tending to the residents and visitors who need a snack, a gift, or a toiletry item.

Nancy grew up in Harrisburg’s North Allison Hill, the daughter of a salesman and a homemaker. At age 16, Nancy was sitting around a campfire while attending church camp when she suddenly felt a calling to serve in a Christian capacity. She wasn’t sure what that could be, but she thought being a minister’s wife would be marvelous.

The pastor’s wife of her church didn’t try to dissuade her but said, “Nancy, it’s no bed of roses.”

Nancy had already met Don VanKirk as a teenager in the same neighborhood. They were in and out of each other’s lives for seven years, until one day, the phone rang, “and there was Don VanKirk.”

They married in 1954. Back then, he was a printer’s apprentice. About a year into the marriage, they attended a camp meeting at Mt. Gretna when he felt the calling into the ministry.

“I was elated,” Nancy said. Don VanKirk graduated from United Theological Seminary in western Ohio, and for the next 40 years, the VanKirks and their son and daughter lived in 10 different places, mostly in central Pennsylvania. They went where the United Methodist Church assigned them.

“I always was very much involved in whatever needed to be done,” she said. “I was there to do it.”

Don VanKirk died in 2006, and Nancy moved into a retirement home. She kept busy volunteering, including 20 years on the board of the Neighborhood Center of the United Methodist Church, which provides community services in Harrisburg.

When health challenges complicated her ability to stand, Nancy knew it was time to come to Homeland. She appreciated the stability in staffing and the leadership that ensured quality care.

Before long, Nancy noticed no one was operating the Homeland gift shop on Fridays. Ever ready to pitch in, she offered to volunteer. She picked up quickly on the routine and applied her 10 years of experience as an independent contractor displaying home interiors and gifts for home shows.

“I’m a people person,” she said. “Plus, it was easy for me to keep stock in place and to realize that whatever we had for sale needed to be on the shelves where people could see it and buy it.”

The Homeland gift shop offers practical items and little delights. Tastykakes and snacks are sold at bargain prices. Residents can find the toiletries they need. Visiting families can pick up coloring books and puzzles to occupy the children. Anyone looking for a gift can find scarves, hand-crocheted throws, jewelry, and cards.

In the gift shop, connected to the Homeland Diner, Nancy deftly manages an array of tasks — stocking the ice cream freezer, breaking down small boxes, making sales, and tracking residents’ accounts.

“I enjoy it,” she said, adding that she likes being helpful. “I’m an encourager at heart. That’s sort of my goal in life.”

Homeland, she adds, “is a very good place to live. I expect to live the rest of my life where I am.”

 

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland’s outreach program, Homeland at Home provides hospice, palliative care, home care, and home health to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.

Resident Kitty Deaven: Loving life at Homeland

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Resident Kitty Deaven relaxing in a Homeland suiteIs Kitty Deaven enjoying her time at Homeland?

“Oh, yes,” she said. “Yes, yes, yes, yes.”

Kitty loves everything about Homeland, and so do her daughters.

“It’s given us peace of mind not to worry about her,” said her eldest daughter, Judy Deaven, of Susquehanna Township.

Kitty came to Homeland on Memorial Day weekend this year and has settled comfortably into her bright suite overlooking one of Homeland’s picturesque courtyards. The décor is straight from the home she lived in for 74 years, with family photos and ceramics on the built-in shelves, a painting of a country church on the wall, and cow figurines lining the windowsill.

The cows recall Kitty’s time growing up on a farm near the village of Linglestown, in Lower Paxton Township. She was one of six children raised by a loving aunt and uncle and attended a one-room schoolhouse through fifth grade.

At a soda fountain off the Linglestown square, Kitty met Harold Deaven. He helped run the family farm, and his hardworking mother sold homegrown vegetables and homemade cottage cheese in her own downtown Harrisburg produce stand.

Harold was also a music lover who taught himself to play the clarinet, saxophone, and piano. They would go to Hershey Park Ballroom on their dates to see big-name acts such as singer Vaughn Monroe.

“It was so full that you couldn’t dance,” Kitty recalls.

Harold served in the U.S. Army, driving a coal truck in Japan and sending love letters home to Kitty. The two married in 1950 and built a house in Lower Paxton, raising two daughters, Judy and Renee.

In addition to tending the family farm, which included cattle, chickens, and turkeys, Harold worked full-time at the Olmsted Air Force Base. Kitty was active in the PTA and served as a Brownie troop leader.

Harold died in 2014, and Kitty stayed in the home they built until this year. Homeland was always Kitty’s choice for a continuing care community because her beloved uncle had lived here in the 1980s.

Kitty never forgot the attentive care her uncle received, and her daughter, Renee Edgett, said Homeland was the family’s first choice.

“It was always Homeland,” Renee said. “I don’t think there’s been a day that she’s been here that she’s sorry. She doesn’t even ask us what’s going on at home. She likes it here.”

Homeland staff helped the family apply and sort through finances. During a tour, President and CEO Barry Ramper II walked up and introduced himself.

Kitty chose the personal care suite adjacent to where her uncle had lived. After moving in, Kitty learned that her neighbor on the other side was a classmate from that one-room schoolhouse.

At Homeland, Kitty doesn’t miss a beat. She loves the food and the people, stays busy taking craft classes, and attends music sessions played by visiting guitarists and a harpist. Kitty said that the Homeland salon styled her hair so perfectly that she didn’t need a perm.

Kitty has four grandchildren. After a visit, one granddaughter contacted her mom, Judy.

“Don’t worry about Grammy,” Judy texted her mother. “She’s really happy. She’s different than I’ve seen her in the last several years. None of us have to worry about her.”

Homeland Resident Art Wiand: Focused on family

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Resident Art Wiand sitting in a reclinerArt Wiand grew up in a family-oriented atmosphere, which is why he felt at home the first time he set foot in Homeland.

“It’s one big happy family,” he said. “The majority of us socialize a lot.”

Art is a central Pennsylvania native who grew up around Sunbury and Northumberland. He is the eldest of six children.

Growing up, Art’s father worked various jobs including feeding the coal furnace at a Sunbury furniture and cabinet company. Sometimes, Art and one of his brothers would bicycle 30 miles on dirt roads to help work on their aunt and uncle’s farm. He also helped at the farm of one of his teachers.

“It was all hand work at that time,” he said. “They didn’t have tractors. Maybe the big farms had tractors, but not the little farms.”

When Art was 18, his father died in an accident. Art, who graduated from high school in 1950, wasn’t drafted due to the policy of not taking the eldest sons of families without a breadwinner.

Two of Art’s brothers served during the Korean War, but the Army deferred Art’s service. He entered the Army after the war ended, serving as a tank commander and then driving a cargo truck known as a “deuce and a half.” After two years in the military, he also served one year in the Army Reserve.

While in the service, Art corresponded with a woman named Connie, but she got mad at him for reasons he can’t remember. Connie gave Art’s address to her best friend, Janet, and the two fell in love.

Art and Janet married in 1957 and moved to Green Street in Harrisburg, just a few blocks from Homeland Center. In those days, stores and banks were all around, so he could walk across the street for a loaf of bread.

“It was peaceful,” Art said. “You could leave your car door unlocked.”

Art spent most of his career as a draftsman for Gannett Fleming, utilizing a skill he learned in high school. He and Janet raised four kids, eventually moving to Middletown, where they lived for 54 years. Janet worked as a teacher’s aide when the kids were young and served as an executive assistant for the American Red Cross when they were older.

Though it all, there was family. The children were involved in band and sports. There were family reunions and visits. As Art and Janet’s siblings married, the in-laws became brothers and sisters, too.

Art joined the Homeland family in March 2024. Life at Homeland hasn’t slowed him down. He visits family every week. He attends Wednesday Bible study and Sunday services at his home church in Middletown. His pastor is “a lot of fun,” he said. “She knows the Bible, and she’s a good teacher.”

With Art around, she sometimes has to keep her flock in line. Art and the pastor’s mother enjoy sitting together and chit-chatting. One day, the pastor had to stop her speaking to admonish, “Will you two children please be quiet?”

After Art’s wife died in 2017, he stayed in their home until it was time to find a retirement community for his safety and health

“He deserved to have a more enjoyable life,” said his daughter, Becky.

Together, Art and his children researched all the possibilities. He knew immediately that Homeland was the right place. It was near the first house that he and Janet shared, “so maybe it brought back some memories,” he said.

He made friends quickly, and the staff is taking good care of him. In his bright and roomy personal care suite, he passes the time doing jigsaw puzzles.

“I try to get involved with everything,” Art said. “We have movies. A couple of us go down to the main gathering room and sit there and talk.”

It’s all part of his active, sociable life. He recently visited his three great-grandchildren in Nashville. This fall, he plans to visit his son’s family in Oregon.

“As long as I can go,” he said, “I’m going.”

Homeland Resident Pino Filardo: From Italy to Pennsylvania

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Homeland Resident Pino Filardo smiling with his wifeWorld War II came directly to Pino Filardo’s childhood hometown of Catanzaro, Italy.

The beautiful capital of Calabria, known as “the City of the Two Seas,” was under siege from bombings. Even his school was bombed, but young Pino wasn’t there that day because he was home sick. Most of his family was able to escape to a nearby mountain village.

“A lot of people died, and we were very, very fortunate to get out of the city,” Pino said. “My father and oldest brother stayed in the city, and one bomb got close to where my brother was, but thank God, nothing happened.”

Pino is one of Homeland Center’s newer residents, bringing a sense of humor and stories of perseverance. He and his wife, Janet, are happy with their attentive care and his bright personal-care room overlooking the Fifth Street garden.

His journey to Homeland began with a move from his native Italy to the United States. With his artistic skills, he forged a career with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, and you can even see his artwork on some iconic Pennsylvania license plates.

Pino was the third of eight children in his Mediterranean town, near the “toe” of Italy. His parents met during a pre-Lenten carnival.

His father, who owned a large stationery store, hated dictator Benito Mussolini, but he had to keep quiet to protect his family.

Pino’s birth name was Giuseppe, after St. Joseph, but that was a mouthful for a small child to pronounce, so his mother called him Giuseppino, diminutive for “Little Joe.” Soon, his family shortened it to the manageable nickname of Pino.

As a young man, he studied art in Naples for one year and then went to Rome, where an uncle lived. He emigrated from Italy at age 28 after meeting his first wife and coming to her hometown of Mt. Carmel. The adjustment to life in a quiet, coal-region town was difficult.

“I didn’t know any English at all,” he said. “The only thing I knew was ‘yes’ and ‘no.’”

But he persisted, learning English by watching TV shows.

“I learned words and how they’re pronounced day after day,” he said. I started with the numbers: one, two, three, four, five. As soon as I got to 12, I said no more.”

His first job in the U.S. was with an engineering firm, drawing warehouse designs. Someone told him that the Pennsylvania Department of Environmental Protection, now the Department of Environmental Resources, had an opening for someone with artistic skills. He took his portfolio to a supervisor, who looked it over and asked, “When can you start?”

His title was “cartographic supervisor,” but his duties varied. He drew maps and designed book covers. When the state wanted to produce a “Conserve Wild Resources” license plate, Pino designed the familiar plate depicting an owl – in Italian, it’s “gufo” – sitting on an evergreen branch.

After 30 years of marriage, Pino’s wife died of cancer. In time, he enlisted with a dating service and met Janet, whom he married in 1986. For her 50th birthday, he drew adorable pictures of Mickey and Minnie Mouse. Together, they visited Pino’s childhood hometown and where his father had his business.

When they first visited Homeland, Pino and Janet toured the room that is now his home. Large windows overlook the Chet Henry Memorial Pavilion and adjoining garden, with its fountain, seating, and winding path.

“I was mesmerized,” Pino said. “I said I would like to go here. The sunshine is fantastic.”

Janet agrees that the view helped convince her that Homeland was the place for Pino. Plus, she was impressed with Homeland’s excellence in medical care.

“Our doctor said this is the best place in the whole area for total care,” she said. “We like this little cozy room.”

Pino added: “They are so nice. They treat me like I was here 10 years.”

Homeland resident Loretta Colestock: A life of love and service

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smiling resident Loretta ColestockAfter 65 years of marriage, Loretta Colestock lost her husband to Alzheimer’s in 2015.

It was a challenging time. In the years after his death, she got tired of rambling around alone in the house, but she also wanted to retain her independence.

Loretta had heard about Homeland Center’s stellar reputation and decided, “Homeland is a good spot for me.”

“I told the kids and surprised them,” she said. “They went on the tour with me and seemed to like everything about it.”

Since coming to Homeland last August, Loretta has settled in comfortably. Enjoying crafts, attending music programs, hosting family visits, and singing with the staff — it suits her joyous and dynamic nature.

Loretta was born in Harrisburg and lived in the area between Harrisburg and Hershey, known as Lawnton, from sixth grade on. She was the second of five siblings raised by a hard-working single mother.

“She was a jewel,” Loretta recalls. “She never wanted to ask for help. She thought she could do it all herself. My siblings, we all got along so well. We were very close because we knew that Mom was doing her best. We were brought up on hand-me-downs, but we survived, and I think it made us stronger.”

Loretta graduated from high school in 1955 and worked at the former Harrisburg National Bank. In those days, Loretta would attend games fielded by the bank’s softball team. One player recruited a friend who was a good hitter and pitcher, and that’s how she met David Colestock, “who kind of swept me off my feet, I guess.”

David and Loretta were married in 1959 and raised four children. They settled in the Lenker Manor community of Swatara Township. He worked as a draftsman designer for Gannet Fleming, the engineering firm.

They stayed active in the community, with David coaching Little League, serving as a Swatara Township commissioner, and volunteering on the Swatara Township Police Commission.

Together, they served in the Paxtang Lions Club, participating in projects such as providing eyeglasses for the visually impaired. Loretta also sang soprano in their church choir, taught Sunday school, and joined church outreach efforts, including volunteering at a local nursing home.

“We always did a lot of volunteer service work,” said Loretta. “It’s kind of in our blood. They say if you want something done, ask a busy person. People would ask me, ‘Can you do this?’ and I’d say, ‘I don’t know,’ but I’d always give in.”

After the kids were grown, Loretta taught nursery school for 20 years.

“It was fun,” she said. “Kids today need more playtime rather than being on devices and the TV all the time. They need to play with other children.”

The Colestock children all did well, and Loretta is very proud of them. While still in her home during the pandemic, she heard voices singing outside. Looking out the window, she saw her children and their families there to serenade her.

Music remains an integral part of Loretta’s life. When Homeland CNA Aprile Greene breaks into song in the dining room – maybe singing “You Light Up My Life” or “You Are My Sunshine” – Loretta sings along.

Often, Loretta enjoys the peace of her personal care suite. Still, she’s also likely to be found playing bingo or dominoes, making wreaths in a craft session, or enjoying the performance of a visiting musician. For her first Christmas in Homeland, she adorned her room with cherished decorations she brought from home, including small glass lanterns inherited from her mother.

resident Loretta Colestock and some of her family members at a decorated table“I’m happy at Homeland,” she said. “I think it’s good. I like that it’s so clean, and the girls are so nice when they come in to help.”

But her independent streak still shows sometimes.

“They want to make the bed,” Loretta said. “I won’t let them. They say, ‘We’re supposed to do that,’ but I say I have to do something. I can’t just sit around.”

Loretta has nine grandchildren and four great-grandchildren and is a frequent guest at birthday parties and weddings. When she hosts family visits, the youngsters enjoy running around the Homeland gardens and getting ice cream sandwiches in the Gift Shop located in Homeland’s ‘50s-style diner.

Her suite is decorated with family pictures and furnished in antique pieces refinished by her husband. All provide mementos of a rich life, and she said she’s received compliments on her decor from the staff.

“They love the room,” she said. “They like the way I have it decorated.”