Homeland Center Resident Joe Pulaski: A Life of Adventure and Service to his Country

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When Joe Pulaski enlisted in the U.S. Air Force, he wanted to maintain B-52 bombers, and he got his wish. As Homeland Center honors its residents and staff veterans for Veterans Day, he spoke for many who cherish their service.

“It made me grow up,” he said. “It helped me with a lot of things. I made rank pretty steady, so my earnings went up regularly. It was a good deal. Everything about it was fine.”

Joe grew up in the Harrisburg suburb of Colonial Park, where he developed a love of the outdoors and a taste for adventure through hunting and fishing with his brothers.

“We had a great time,” he said.

As an Explorer Scout, he attended a weekend encampment at the former Olmsted Air Force Base in Middletown. Staying in the barracks, eating in the chow hall, and riding in a cargo plane made him eager to enlist. He signed up as soon as he graduated from Bishop McDevitt High School in 1966.

The next four years were good ones. Basic training was tolerable. “I’d been to harder Boy Scout camps,” he said. Technical school was “pretty intense.” Days were packed with marching, shining shoes, studying, and assigned jobs.

The experience prepared him for his posting to Minot, North Dakota. He adjusted to the cold winters and was doing what he wanted. He serviced the Air Force’s newest B-52 bombers.

He rose to the rank of E5 — staff sergeant — at 21.

“It was a great decision to do it right out of high school,” he said.

After opting not to reenlist, he got a job servicing vehicles at a Volkswagen dealership in Harrisburg. The business changed hands three times, but Joe stayed put for 19 years.

“The joke was that I went with the building,” he said.

He also reconnected with Avis, whom he’d met at his father’s company picnics over the years. They married one year after he got home and settled into family life.

They had a son and a daughter. Joe shared his passion for the outdoors with his family. When Avis wanted to resume her nursing studies, he supported her; she would retire after 35 years as a registered nurse.

Avis, who still lives at home, supported Joe’s career change after he left the dealership. He learned to service computers and retired from Capital Blue Cross.

He fed his adventurous streak by driving stock cars, sailing up to 35-foot yachts, and raising horses.

“My wife said, ‘You can’t get into anything small,’ and I said, ‘Nope,’” he recalls.

He loved horses, especially the big ones. He joined a circuit of draft horse people who competed at the Pennsylvania Farm Show and marched in parades. He even joined the Great Circus Parade in Milwaukee one year.

His own draft horse team stabled at Landis Valley Museum, Pennsylvania’s living history farm in Lancaster County, where he gave wagon rides and demonstrated horse-powered farming.

His Clydesdale, named Hunter, still boards with a friend. Despite their size, Clydesdales are not big grain eaters. However, they will eat a bale of hay in one session. “A lot of times, they’ll still be looking for it.”

“The big ones are easier to keep than the light horses, I think,” he said.

After arriving in Homeland in December 2022, Joe lived in skilled care for two years. Homeland’s physical therapists “stuck by me constantly” to help him recover from health issues.

When he regained his mobility, he moved to his personal care suite, where he now lifts weights to stay active.

He spends his days attending music programs, enjoying his beloved outdoors in the lush Catherine Elizabeth Meikle Courtyard, and chatting with resident Carl Barna in Homeland’s community garden.

Recently, he spoke with students from The Nativity School of Harrisburg, a nearby boys’ prep school. He talked about his Air Force duty. For Joe, military service opens doors to career and learning opportunities. It was “the best thing I could have done at the time.”

“I would strongly urge any young person unsure of their direction to give it some time,” he said. “You might find out that you like it. The Air Force gave me everything they promised. I kept stepping up, and they gave me a lot of responsibility. It was a good deal for me. I loved being in the service for my country.”

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland also provides hospice, home care, home health and palliative care services to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.

Homeland Honors its Veterans at Annual Event

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“Should old acquaintance be forgotten, keep your eye on the grand old flag.” The refrain of the song “You’re a Grand Old Flag” reminds us of the enduring spirit of our country and fellow citizens. This was one of the many patriotic melodies sang with pride and vigor at Homeland Center’s Veterans Day Celebration held on November 11 at its Chapel. A packed crowd of veterans, residents and friends attended the event to honor and thank Homeland veterans for their service and sacrifice.

This annual event official opened and closed with the presentation and retiring of the colors by the Nativity School Color Guard, which is led by Stephen Holmes, veteran, commander and chaplain of American Legion Post 733. While most students enjoyed a day off from school on Veterans Day, four young students proudly volunteered. For Tyrone, a Nativity School Student, the day was an honor and privilege.

“I participate in this event every year,” Tyrone says. “I like hearing from veterans.”

For Homeland veterans in attendance, the day was about remembering the bonds formed through their service, and appreciating the support shown by the Homeland community. Joe Pulaski, a Homeland resident, is a veteran of the United States Air Force. During his four years of service, Joe worked as a mechanic on B-52 bombers.

“It’s a special day to see other veterans,” Joe says. “It reminds us we were part of something bigger than ourselves.”

For Mike, a Navy veteran, the day was a chance to reflect on the man he was when he joined the miliary. Mike came of age during the Vietnam War when the draft was on the minds of all young men. He entered the Navy as an officer at the age of 22 and began working on aircraft carriers on the west coast. His time and life experiences have given him a greater appreciation for his military service.

“I am grateful for everything I have learned and the people I’ve met,” Mike says. “Today reminds me of that important period of my life.”

A highlight of the event was the keynote address from Brigadier General Larry Oakes. Larry entered the United States Army when he was 19 years old and a student at Millersville University. He went on to serve our country for 32 years through active duty, the Army National Guard and Army Reserve.

Larry’s remarks focused on three phases of growth all veterans experience. The initial phase is one of discovery as everything is new for soldiers. During this time, soldiers explore the skills they need to do their jobs successfully as well as learn how to get along with others.

During the second phase, soldiers have the opportunity to learn and hone their skills to both advance in their ranks and better support the greater goals of the military.

“You realize how much others are counting on you,” Larry says. “Your service is part of a grander picture.”

With discovery and learning under their belts, soldiers leverage everything they have learned during the third past. By utilizing their skills and experiences, soldiers attain results which can lead to more successful operations and more lives saved.

“The more you lead, the more you grow,” Larry adds. “The Army approach becomes a way of life.”

The event concluded with personalized recognition of veterans living at Homeland Center. Each veteran received a certificate and blanket made patriotic and with military-specific colors.

Homeland has a long and proud history of honoring those who served our country. The organization is part of the national We Honor Veterans program, which works to improve the quality of health care for all veterans. An extension of the program is Homeland’s Vet to Vet Café, which gives veterans and family members of those who served an opportunity to share their memories at monthly gatherings held in Homeland Center’s 1950s-style Olewine Diner.

To learn more about Homeland Center contact (717) 221-7900.

Dietary Supervisor Felicia Foster: Making days brighter

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Felicia Foster’s reason for working at Homeland Center for 25 years is simple: The residents.

“I love the residents,” she said. “You feel so close to them.”

Foster is a Homeland dietary supervisor, responsible for ensuring that lunch and dinner are served fresh, on time, and delicious.

Her philosophy is to treat residents “as your own grandparents. That’s how I see it, because you never know when somebody is going to take on your grandparents.”

She joined Homeland in March 2005 as a night cook and pantry aide, having previously supervised a fast-food restaurant. As Foster took on other roles in Homeland’s kitchen, she made herself into a “jack-of-all-trades.”

Foster was aware of Homeland long before she walked in the door. Her great-grandmother on her father’s side was a caterer who once worked at Homeland and for the Kunkel family, prominent benefactors of Homeland.

Cooking is “a commonsense thing” to her. She asked questions and learned to cook the Homeland way, especially remembering to stay true to the recipes and make sure that the dishes the residents love taste the same every time they’re served.

“When you’re making a lot of things, everything has to stay consistent,” she said. Residents’ favorite dishes include pasta, soups, and salads.

Around 2015, Foster started developing into a dietary supervisor. She no longer cooks entrees, but she’ll help with desserts. On a recent Wednesday, she taught a cook how to make icing.

“I like to bake cakes and muffins,’’ she said. “I make different desserts, so I can be more creative.”

There have only been a couple of baking missteps.

Originally from Pittsburgh, Foster came to Harrisburg when her stepfather got a job at the New Cumberland Army Depot. Today, the proud mom of two still lives in Harrisburg, within walking distance of Homeland, in a home where she enjoys gardening and doing the fixing up.

Her son is a shoe warehouse supervisor, and her daughter followed Foster’s culinary footsteps, being recently promoted to manager for a caterer serving the state capitol.

At Homeland, the moments Foster loves best come when she visits residents.

“You try to talk to them and make their day better,” she said. “You just get some information to see what their mindset is and maybe change it. They can have a bad day and come into the dining room, and you can change their mindset and make their day better. Some people make my day, and they change me for the better. I get a little laugh. The residents make my day. They really do.”

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland also provides hospice, home care, home health and palliative care services to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.

Hospice Volunteer Tom Barry’s Life of Service

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Tom Barry of Harrisburg has lived a life of service through his military career and now as a Homeland volunteer. He brings his love of our country and joy of helping others to honor veterans receiving care through Homeland Hospice, a nonprofit hospice program that serves communities throughout Central Pennsylvania.

For Tom, volunteering with Homeland is an opportunity to thank the organization who helped his family during his wife’s end-of-life journey. Tom’s wife died two years ago after a courageous eight-year battle with cancer. Tom cared for her for 11 months and needed additional support to keep her comfortable during her final three weeks of life.

For Tom and his family, Homeland Hospice was a Godsend.

“I know both sides of the equation,” Tom says. “I understand the pain both patients and families feel.”

Tom actively participates in Homeland’s We Honor Veterans program, created by the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO) in collaboration with the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). The program works to improve the quality of health care for all veterans. Tom proudly wears his Army cap when he accompanies Homeland Chaplain Todd Carver to personally honor veterans with a special pin and certificate.

“The pinning ceremonies are very moving for patients and their families,” Tom adds. “I fondly remember a ceremony with three generations of family members in attendance.”

Tom also volunteers with Homeland Center’s Vet to Vet Café, which is an extension of the We Honor Veterans program. Through the Vet to Vet Café, veterans and family members of those who served have a chance to talk and share their memories. The monthly gatherings, held in Homeland Center’s 1950s-style Olewine Diner, offers these residents an opportunity to connect with others who understand the camaraderie and sacrifices of military service.

Tom appreciates this sacred time as it offers a safe space for veterans to share their grief over the loss of their military friends and remember a time when they were young with dreams of their futures. The group always recites the Pledge of Alliance, sings patriotic songs and reviews a presentation of historic events.

“People can be hesitant to share in the beginning,” Tom says, “but we ask them questions to help them feel comfortable about opening up to talk about themselves.”

Tom’s military service began when he entered the United States Army ROTC (Reserve Officers’ Training Corps) while he was attending Hofstra University in Long Island, New York. Following college, he served with an attack helicopter squad for three years and as a Company Commander in the 2nd Army Division.

Following his military tenure, he began his career with Pepsi which took him around the country five different times as he managed fleets. He has been retired for nine years and enjoys time with his children and grandchildren.

Tom enjoys filling his days with service to others as it fills his heart with happiness and peace.

“The good you give is returned to you seven-fold,” Tom adds. “I am proud to do my part for an organization that helped me so much.”

To learn more, please contact Homeland Hospice at (717) 221-7890.

James and Helen Smith: Planting deep roots in the community

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Helen and James SmithWhile James and Helen Smith became Homeland Center residents earlier this year, their ties to Homeland go back decades.

Helen met her longtime friend, Homeland resident Loretta Colestock, when she first moved to Harrisburg. James coached Homeland President/CEO Barry Ramper II in Little League.

“Everybody here is very friendly and very helpful,” said Helen.

Helen grew up on a dairy farm in Juniata County. As the only sister among three boys, she enjoyed helping to make meals for the family and developed into a skilled cook, creating Pennsylvania Dutch dishes such as chicken pot pie, and had a particular fondness for making pies.

In high school, Helen played basketball. In those days, girls were considered too dainty for full-court play, so they played only one half of the court, offense or defense.

James grew up in the Rutherford Heights area, between Harrisburg and Hershey, where his father worked as a railcar inspector, and his older brother worked for the Pennsylvania Railroad in the Enola train yards.

He, too, briefly worked in the rail yards as a clerk before taking a position at the former Harrisburg Trust Company in Harrisburg’s Market Square, now occupied by Citizens Bank. It was there that he met Helen, who was a coworker.

The couple married in 1958 and launched into a busy life of work, church, community, and sports. James was active in baseball—as a conference champion in high school, then as a Twilight League player before switching to softball. Initially a shortstop, he moved to the outfield thanks to his speed.

He loved baseball because he was too small for football. A friend who became a first-base coach for the Baltimore Orioles, and whose own father was a baseball scout, told James that he would have gotten a tryout for Major Leage Baseball if he’d been able to hit home runs.

“I was a singles hitter,” he said. “I was a good hitter, but outfielders that don’t hit home runs don’t get tryouts.”

While James was active on ball fields – he played softball until COVID came along – Helen was busy raising their children, three daughters and one son, and volunteering. She was active in Girls Scout troops and her church youth missionary program.

While James was active on ball fields – he played softball until COVID came along – Helen was busy raising their children, three daughters and one son, and volunteering. She was active in Girl Scout troops and her church’s youth missionary program.

Interestingly, James holds a degree that no longer exists – a two-year degree from the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School of Business, taught by Wharton professors who traveled to Harrisburg twice weekly before the program was terminated.

After James left banking to work in a poultry business for a time, he returned to banking and served as the president of a couple of small banks that underwent acquisitions. After the last acquisition, he remained as a consultant before retiring.

They enjoyed traveling, including cruises in Alaska, Bermuda, and Nova Scotia. Three of their children remained in the Harrisburg area, but one moved to the Midwest – currently in Minneapolis – and for a time, they would drive there to visit.

Today, the Smiths have 12 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren. They came to Homeland in July 2025, settling into a bright corner suite and staying active. They enjoy the morning exercise classes, play dominoes, and attend music programs.

Homeland, said Helen, is “one of the better choices we had.”

And, James added, “The people are so nice.”

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland also provides hospice, home care, home health and palliative care services to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.

Artist Kelly Charlesworth: Capturing a sense of place

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Artist Kelly Charlesworth next to one of her piecesA young artist’s mischief turned her family’s world purple when Kelly Charlesworth, a perfectly behaved child by all appearances, left behind an unexpected canvas — her bedsheets, transformed with a single crayon. What began as a childhood mystery would spark a lifelong artistic journey.

“She said, ‘Kelly would never do that,’” Charlesworth recalls. “But the sheets were colored purple.”

That was the beginning of Charlesworth’s life as an artist. The lifelong Harrisburg-area resident now showcases her shimmering works at Homeland Center, where she exhibits in Homeland’s Florida Room Gallery.

“I’ve heard so many good things about Homeland,” she said. “It is a really cool place.”

She noted this is her first exhibit in a retirement community and that Homeland offers “a nice display space.”

“It’s new and fun,” she said. “Nice for people to have something different to look at.”

The display is part of Homeland’s partnership with the Art Association of Harrisburg and its Community Art exhibit series. Every quarter, AAH invites member artists to display their works in sites throughout the area, from businesses to theaters.

Homeland is the only retirement community in the program. Artists are selected by AAH for their compatibility with the space and the residents, staff, and visitors who stop to enjoy a moment of serenity or awe.

“It’s always nice to come through and see the art,” said a visitor as she paused on her way to see her mother-in-law.

From her purple-crayon days – just like Harold of the classic children’s book, “Harold and the Purple Crayon” — Charlesworth has made art a part of her life. She was fascinated by the famed TV artist Bob Ross. After graduating from York College of Pennsylvania with a degree in art, she worked in insurance “to pay the bills.” Now, she works in grant writing.

“I use my creativity for writing grants for the food bank,” she said. “I paint on the side for fun.”

In 2005, Charlesworth took a landscape class with the Art Association of Harrisburg, where she learned plein air painting, which has since become the focus of her oil work.

Participating with plein air groups and competitions, including the Susquehanna Valley Plein Air Painters, she visits the region’s scenic sites and captures them on canvas or panel – Children’s Lake at Boiling Springs, a stone barn in Marietta, the Pennsylvania State Museum as seen from a hilltop across the Susquehanna River. At one spot, she discovered Native American artifacts and burial grounds that local residents had found there.

Charlesworth completes each plein air piece in about two hours, taking on the challenge of capturing scenes as atmospheric conditions evolve and the light changes.

“It’s very addicting,” she said as she hung her paintings at Homeland. “You try it and then you don’t want to go back to the studio. You capture it on the scene, and you can look at it later and remember how you were feeling that day.”

Her work vividly evokes the landscape and history of central Pennsylvania – a region with “some of the most beautiful scenery in the world,” she says — in shades of green, pink, and red. Her inspiration lies in finding beauty in the natural world, from misty mornings to forests in the fall.

“They say don’t put too much green in your paintings because it doesn’t make for a good painting, but I can’t help myself,” she said. “I still love the green.”

Charlesworth lives in Lower Paxton Twp. She has two children, a 17-year-old daughter and a 13-year-old son who attend Harrisburg Academy.

She exhibits her work at local galleries. One of her paintings, “Tea Time in Wales,” hanging at Homeland, reflects Charlesworth’s love of world travel. Her excursions have taken her to the United Kingdom, the Netherlands, Belgium, and more. A family trip to Greece is on the horizon.

“We’ve got the travel bug, that’s for sure,” she said. “It’s great to see the museums.”

In Paris, her favorite museum isn’t the Louvre but the Musée d’Orsay.

“It’s got all the Monets and all the Impressionists,” she said. “It’s gorgeous. You see it all in person, and there are so many artists that you never hear about. I like to see what inspired these Impressionists. These places are so old that you can sit at the restaurant where Van Gogh sat.”

Find her work at kellycharlesworth.com.

Homeland Center (www.homelandcenter.org) offers levels of care including personal care, memory care, skilled nursing and rehabilitation. Homeland also provides hospice, home care, home health and palliative care services to serve the diverse and changing needs of families throughout central Pennsylvania. For more information or to arrange a tour, please call 717-221-7900.