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Never forget: Homeland Center notes Holocaust Remembrance Day

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Holocaust Remembrance Day

Lillian Rappaport, daughter of Holocaust survivors, shares their story with resident’s at Homeland Center.

At age 20, Lillian Rappaport’s parents hadn’t met yet. Both were living poor but normal lives in the Warsaw-area Jewish villages called shtetls. It all changed in September 1939 when the Nazis invaded Poland, the start of the Second World War.

“Neighbor turned against neighbor,” Holocaust educator Rappaport told Homeland Center residents. “People they were friendly with, people they went to school with, people they socialized with, all of a sudden turned their backs on them, and not just turned their backs but sometimes did more terrible things to them.”

Homeland Center hosted a well-attended Holocaust Remembrance Day program in the Homeland Chapel in early May. The event, part of a Homeland series on the Lessons of Jewish history, reflected global recognition of Holocaust Remembrance Day. The day amplified the voices of survivors and their descendants to ensure that the world never forgets or repeats the time in history when 6 million Jews and 5 million other “undesirables” were systematically slaughtered.

Holocaust Remembrance Day

Lillian Rappaport answers questions following her presentation.

“Here at Homeland Center, we surely believe that all of us regardless of our age need to remember,” program organizer and Homeland Hospice Chaplain Dann Caldwell said. Recent synagogue shootings spotlight the need for vigilance against anti-Semitic feelings and expressions that spiral into violence, Caldwell said.

“We need to consider things from our moral, ethical, and historical perspectives,’’ he said. “We need to engage with these issues, to learn again, to never forget, to work as one people to make sure these horrors do not happen again.”

The Holocaust started with small actions in Germany, “the most sophisticated, enlightened country in Europe,” said Rappaport. Germany’s 500,000 Jews and others, including Roma people and the disabled, were “marginalized and excluded.”

But with the invasion of Poland, the Jewish population under control grew by 3.3 million, and the German hierarchy under Adolph Hitler devised a plan of extermination. Within months, Rappaport’s parents were sent to a Nazi ghetto, where entire families were forced to live in single rooms, and starvation and brutality became the norm.

Rappaport’s mother, Genia, plus four siblings and a brother-in-law, were transported to concentration and slave labor camps, but all survived. Family legend says that Genia’s mother knew that God would protect her family because of her devotion to tzedakah, the Jewish concept of giving even if one has almost nothing of one’s own.

“They all weighed about 50 pounds when they were liberated,” Rappaport told the rapt audience. “They survived. Their bodies healed, and they all went on to live good, productive lives.”

Her father, Jacob Weinstock, endured all the horrors of the Holocaust, and as a result, “his soul was injured.” He survived by luck, wits, and talent. By tailoring beautiful uniforms for officers in slave labor camps, he would be rewarded with an extra piece of bread or a potato – the difference between survival and starvation.

As Allied troops were approaching to liberate Buchenwald, Jacob hid in the mud under his barracks for days while guards were killing prisoners in an attempt to silence witnesses. When he finally emerged, the sight of the first black man he ever saw – an African American GI – told him he was free.

He would learn that he was the sole survivor of his family. “No parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins remained,” Rappaport said. All had perished in the camps, or died from starvation days after liberation, or been murdered by Poles.

Jacob and Genia met in a displaced person’s camp. They married, had their first baby, and in 1949, were among about 30 refugee families brought to the U.S. by Harrisburg’s Jewish community. Lillian was born the next year. Jacob opened a tailor shop, known to customers as a jovial and talented businessman.

While Jacob rarely talked about his Holocaust memories, Rappaport knew that it “never left my father’s soul.” On her wedding day, as her parents walked her down the aisle, Rappaport realized her father was crying.

“Look at all the people who aren’t here,” he said.

Today, Rappaport is religious school principal for Temple Ohev Sholom, Harrisburg, and Holocaust educator for the Jewish Federation of Greater Harrisburg. She has completed special training in Holocaust education at Yad Vashem Holocaust Institute in Jerusalem.

Homeland resident Pat Myers called the program “very informative. Vey heart-wrenching.” The Holocaust “teaches us an awful lesson,” she said, but Rappaport “has it right on the button. Somebody’s got to tell the story. We all have to think of each other.”

Poker, blackjack and slots: The excitement of a casino comes to Homeland

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Blackjack

From a dining room to a casino!

Cheers from around the slot machines. Intense concentration at the poker table. Groans from the blackjack table.

If Homeland Center residents can’t go to Monte Carlo, Monte Carlo can come to them. The Homeland Board of Managers worked its magic to make it happen, creating the fun, color, and din of a casino for the annual winter party.

Red drapes framed the windows, with dangling dice as curtain tiebacks. Tables were decked in green cloths and sported play coins, dice, giant cards.

Homeland Center’s unique Board of Managers works to enhance residential life, keeping the facility bright and cheery, and regularly organizing special events. For Casino Night – held on a recent Tuesday afternoon – board members transformed Homeland’s Main Dining Room into a bustling casino floor.

“A lot of work and effort went into this,” said Julie Wilhite, attending the party with her mother, resident Ruth Taylor. “This is beautiful. This is beyond expectations. I love it.”

Lively music playing ranged from Billy Joel’s “My Life” to casino-appropriate selections from Frank Sinatra. The games were brought in by Phantom Entertainment Services, a multi-state provider of novelty entertainment. Personable dealers kept up their repartee, joking with residents, who all received chips.

PokerAt the blackjack table, chip value ranged from a pretend $50 to $1,000, depending on the color. Round after round, resident Sandy Friedman let all her chips ride until her stash ballooned to $1,600.

“I’m winning,” she said. “I like playing blackjack. I’ve been all over the world gambling with my husband. This guy’s good.”

Board of Managers member cited Joyce Thomas as the primary force behind the room’s transformation, but she wouldn’t take sole credit.

“We did it,” she emphasized. “We brought it in, and the residents just played.”

Thomas and a friend started decorating events when they were parents of Cedar Cliff High School students. These days, she fills her basement with the décor needed to transform the Main Dining Room into a themed wonderland.

“The residents love it so much,” she said. “It takes them out of the ordinary. It’s a bit of fantasy land for a week.”

Phantom Entertainment’s Adam Melhorn manned the slots area. It was his first time working an event in a retirement community.

“This is awesome,” he said. “Everyone’s really friendly. Folks are having a lot of fun.”

Residents inserted tokens into colorful slot machines with such names as Kung-Fu Lady and Zak-Zak. Resident Peggy Keiser marveled at the lights and sounds. “Oh, my gosh,” she kept saying. “This is so different.”

When it was Peggy’s turn to step up to a machine, it was her lucky day. The crowd cheered as the machine jingled with winning coins. She hit matching images so often that she finally turned to Melhorn and said, “There must be something wrong with this machine.”

SlotsAll the residents came away winners and used their chips to select prizes from a table loaded with candy, puzzle books, and stuffed toys.

Donna Longnaker watched her mother, Betty Dumas, enjoy one of her favorite pastimes – playing the slot machines.

“She used to go to Atlantic City,” Donna said. “I’m so glad they’re doing this because she really loves it.”

Ragtime pianist Domingo Mancuello’s music again charms Homeland’s residents

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Domingo Mancuello

Domingo Mancuello in a return performance at Homeland Center.

Domingo Mancuello fingers flew across the keyboard as he entertained residents in Homeland Center’s Personal Care Dining Room with a mixture of ragtime and Dixieland jazz.

Joining Domingo on Monday were Michael Winstanley on percussion and Tex Wyndham on the cornet. This was Domingo’s second performance at Homeland – he wowed residents with a solo act last February

Mancuello has played piano since age 4 – he’s now in his mid-20s – and discovered ragtime when his grandfather sang with a barbershop quartet. He and his grandfather were prowling antique shops, hunting for phonograph needles, when he heard a player piano for the first time. He was transfixed.

Tex Wyndham

Cornetist Tex Wyndham joined Domingo Mancuello and Michael Winstanley at Homeland Center

Today, he is production assistant at Fulton Theatre, Lancaster, while also pursuing his passion for ragtime. He tries to preserve an old

Domingo Mancuello and Tex Wyndham

Domingo and percussionist Michael Winstanley at Homeland Center recently

tradition while refreshing it for the 21st century.

Kristallnacht remembrance highlights dangers of intolerance and hatred

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Kristallnacht remembrance

Mark Glick and Homeland Center resident’s Vicki and Ray.

The woman approached Dr. Mark Glick at a conference for survivors of the Holocaust. She had been left for dead in a mass grave in a Nazi labor camp. Glick’s mother, digging ditches, saw signs of life and returned that night to pull the woman out and share her rations.

“Your mother,’’ the woman said, “is why I’m here today.’’

Glick shared the account with Homeland residents to illustrate the need to keep stories of the Holocaust alive, even as the number of survivors dwindles.

“When someone tells you something like this, it can’t get more powerful,” Glick said.

At a time of rising intolerance worldwide, Homeland Center conducted a commemoration of Kristallnacht, the German state-sanctioned rioting against Jews and their homes and business in 1938. The rampage by quasi-military mobs disguised as civilians is considered the beginnings of the Holocaust. Glick put it into context with an explanation of its historical roots, as Adolph Hitler rose to power by blaming Jews for deprivations suffered by Germans after World War I and during the Great Depression.

“Scapegoating is something we all do every day,” said Glick. “As human beings, it’s very difficult to say, ‘It’s my fault.’”

Kristallnacht remembrance

Dr. Mark Glick and Rev. Dann Caldwell at the Kristallnacht remembrance service.

The Kristallnacht commemoration on Dec. 11 culminated Homeland’s “ Seasons of Shadow and Night, Love and Light” that started with a Hanukkah celebration on Dec. 4. Homeland Hospice chaplain, the Rev. Dann Caldwell organized the events with help from Homeland residents.

“When a group comes for one, often, the group will come for all,” Caldwell reminded the audience of about 20 residents gathered in the Homeland chapel. “Dr. Glick’s story is a reminder of how we should respond today as people of good will and people of spirit and faith and people who are called to help others in need.”

Glick told the audience that his Polish mother survived German labor camps. Her liberation came during a death march meant to eradicate the survivors as the war’s end was in sight.

His father and a sister escaped through a back window of their home in Poland while their siblings were marched out the front door and into the town square, where they were executed with their neighbors. The pair survived by hiding in forests, getting help from the Resistance and sneaking onto farms at night for food.

Though Kristallnacht occurred 80 years ago, its lessons remain urgent and timely, said Glick.

“You do not have to look very far around to see hatred, bigotry, racism, and violence,” he said. “It’s not just in our country but in the world. It is everywhere. Racial nationalism, which is the concept of uniting a country by hating another race, is very strongly practiced in this country and other countries. You don’t have to look far to see people all over the world trying to escape persecution, hatred, and violence.”

Bravery can counter the forces of hatred and violence, he said.

“Unless we understand what can happen, unless we stand up and stop it, we can and will have another genocide in this world,” Glick said.

Homeland residents responded to Glick’s talk with comments about parallels in current events and perceptive questions about the conditions that led to the Holocaust.

Resident Vicki Fox, who helped organize the program, found it “very enlightening and a little scary, because you see parallels in what’s going on in our country and the world, about people being so afraid of everybody and everything.”

“People have to have a dialogue about it,” Fox said. “A lot of people are afraid of Jews, but many have never met one.’’

Resident Ray Caldwell, the father of Chaplain Dann Caldwell, said the program revealed how events unnoticed at the time could devolve into crises.

“Nobody understands what Dr. Glick’s family went through to be free today,” he said. “We take our freedom very lightly here, and somebody like that, with his family, appreciates everything that he has. We do, too.”

Glick acknowledged that politics is “a tough business,” but encouraged listeners to do what they can to combat injustice.

“For me, it’s being here today,” he said. “It also starts with you. Every one of us has pain, has suffered, and we have to shift our outlook. Instead of complaining and pointing fingers at people, we have to look at ways to strengthen ourselves. We have to hope that if we bond together, we’ll heal as a country and find answers.”

Original Ford Mustang designer being honored at October 10 event benefiting Homeland Hospice

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Gale Halderman

Gale Halderman, designer of the original 1965 Ford Mustang.

The designer of the original 1965 Ford Mustang will receive the AACA Museum, Inc. Automotive Heritage Award during the Museum’s annual gala fundraiser on October 10 benefiting Homeland Hospice and the AACA Museum, Inc.

Award recipient Gale Halderman began as a designer with Lincoln-Mercury in 1954 and four years later became head of Ford’s Advanced Studio. In addition to leading the team that created the first Mustang, during his eight years as studio chief, Halderman oversaw the development of the Lincoln Mark VII and VIII.

  • The AACA Museum, Inc.’s Night at the Museum Gala will be held from 5-10 p.m. on Wednesday, October 10 and includes a cocktail reception and full dinner. This year UPMC Pinnacle is the Premier Sponsor. PNC is this year’s presenting sponsor.
  • Tickets are $150 and proceeds will help support benevolent care provided by Homeland Hospice as well as the AACA Museum’s continuing preservation work.
  • Guests can meet in a special VIP setting for a $50 upgrade featuring a private exclusive reception with Gale Halderman. VIP Guests will also receive an autographed Mustang poster courtesy of Ford Motor Company.
  • To order tickets please visit the museum’s website www.AACAMuseum.org or call 717-566-7100.
  • Sponsorship and advertising opportunities are still available at a variety of levels for organizations or individuals.
  • For more information, please contact Jake Dunnigan at 717-566-7100 ext. 116 or JDunnigan@AACAMuseum.org

The AACA Museum, Inc. will hold a live auction with auctioneer Josh Katz of the Katz Family Foundation during the Gala, which also marks the 15th anniversary of the Museum. Many interesting auction items including artwork and special experiences – ones you cannot buy – will be up for bid.

During the event, visitors will have the opportunity to tour the museum’s featured exhibits including “Mustangs: Six Generations of America’s Favorite Pony Car,’’ with more than two dozen Mustangs. A trio of Thunderbirds courtesy of the International Thunderbird Club and the 1985 Modena Spyder aka the “Ferrari” from the movie Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.

About Homeland Hospice

Homeland Hospice serves 14 counties in Central Pennsylvania and is a community outreach of Homeland Center, a five-star skilled nursing, and personal care facility. Homeland Hospice is one of three Homeland at Home programs offering a complete continuum of care for any changing circumstances. To learn more, please visit www.HomelandatHome.org.

Picnic rainout can’t dampen a good time for Homeland Center’s Ellenberger residents

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Ellenberger picnic

Residents, family and staff gather for the annual summertime picnic

A rainy day couldn’t spoil the fun of when Homeland Center kicked off the 2018 summer season with an annual tradition – the return of monthly all-American picnics for residents and families.

Since Ellenberger Unit memory care residents couldn’t go outside for the picnic, the picnic came inside. Seated at tables decorated in summery red, white, and blue, residents hosted family members over traditional picnic fare of hot dogs, hamburgers, corn on the cob, baked beans, potato salad, pickled eggs, and watermelon.

While some ate in the Ellenberger dining room, other picnic-goers enjoyed their meals in the Dorothy S. Hollinger Conservatory, Homeland Center’s signature space filled with greenery and water features. Even on this wet afternoon, daylight breaking through the clouds streamed through the glass walls and ceiling.

Homeland Center also holds picnics for residents in its Personal Care and Skilled Care units.

Mary Ballos enjoyed the picnic with her mother but was sorry the event had to move from Homeland’s breezy Chet Henry Memorial Pavilion. Mary said that on many of her visits with her mother, they go outside to the beautiful garden beside the pavilion.

“It’s pretty back there,” said Mary, who came to the picnic with her husband. “We look at the flowers. The lily of the valley smell so good.”

At Homeland, she said her mother’s favorite activities center around music.

“When I come in during the music programs, she’s always clapping her hands and being happy,” Mary said.

Volunteer Martha Morgan appreciated the picnic’s social aspect.

“Residents get a chance to be with their families,” she said. As a volunteer for about a year, Martha said the residents “have me laughing.”

“Homeland is so personable,” she said. “It’s a place for residents to live. Their family might not live in the area, so I just go in and sit and talk. I enjoy that, doing their nails and chitchatting.”

Among the picnic guests was Barbara Collins, who served as Homeland’s director of nursing for 13 years, until she retired in 2001. She started her career in nursing, left to raise her children, and returned to long-term care.

Barbara Collins and Ethel Boyer

Barbara Collins (L) and her mother Ethel Boyer enjoy their visit and the picnic

“It was a lot of fun,’’ Barbara said of her experiences working with residents. “They always have wonderful stories to tell you.”

Homeland stands out for the quality and quantity of its staffing, Barbara said. Staffers approach their tasks calmly and professionally, and their longevity is evident when Barbara walks in the door because she hired some of them.

“Everybody is friendly, and they care about the residents, which is so important,” she said. “I know so many of them, and I feel comfortable with them. Some of the nurses treat my mother like she’s their grandmother.”

Barbara’s 98-year-old mother, Ethel Boyer, has been a Homeland resident since 2011, starting with six years in personal care. Since moving to Ellenberger, staff members from personal care often come to visit.

“She loves it,” Barbara said. “It’s one happy family.” Her mother enjoys all the activities available, including an appearance by Elvis Presley impersonator Brad Crum.

Even though the picnic moved inside, Barbara said they were having a good time.

“Oh, we love the picnics,” agreed another guest, Sharon Haederer, who was visiting her aunt, Lorraine Boyanowski.

The picnic was fun, Ethel agreed. The big, delicious meal would put her to sleep, she knew, but “I sleep good,” she said. “Thank the Lord for that.”

Coming from a family of 12 children, Ethel was a middle child who helped take care of her brothers and sisters. She attended a one-room schoolhouse in Stoverstown, Pennsylvania, a little York County town “down in the valley,” just like the old song says. Her brothers played guitars and violins, while all the siblings sang the hymns they knew from church.

“I enjoy myself anywhere,” she said. “I try to make the best out of every situation. That’s the only way to live.”